Thursday, April 28, 2011


I wear corrective lenses.  I've had contacts since I was in 7th grade.

Just calculated and I have inserted and removed contacts in my eyes for the last 6,000 days.  In a row.

I know my eyes, I know how to use contacts, I know what works for me (-5.75 in both eyes).

I'm pretty darn good at it now.

So my question is...

WHY do I need to pay an optometrist every year for an exam in order to be able to purchase the contact lenses that I need?

WHY???

I can buy a million different products without a prescription that are so much more dangerous than contacts.  Sure, at first you need to get an exam, but after a while, its just ridiculous that I keep paying some guy every year to tell me something I ALREADY KNOW.



You know what I think?  Optometrists have good lobbyists.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

The Buffetts Aren't Keeping Up With The Joneses

Did you read my blog post yesterday?  You know you didn't.  Go back and read it now.  I'll wait...
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Did you catch that?

Multi-Billionaire (like $50 of them, with a "B"), living in original home purchased 52 years ago in 1958 for $31,500?


I'm going to repeat that for emphasis.

MULTI-BILLIONAIRE 
LIVING IN SAME HOME HE PURCHASED IN 1958

FOR $31,500


A little background:
Back then that was a rather expensive home and Mr. Buffett was 29 – but he had been in business since he was 13 years old. The Omaha home is 6,000 sqft, and has 5 bedrooms and 2.5 bathrooms.  Down the same street, about a mile away are the Berkshire Hathaway offices.


Some thoughts that come to mind here:
1) Whaa??

2) Never met the guy, but I like him.  I do.  I think I'd feel comfortable having him over for dinner.

3) That reminds me of my sweet, smart Papa, who bought his home in Euless, TX (also in 1958!) when my mom was 3 years old.  He and my Mimi paid less than $10,000 for that house.  Lived in it for 50 years, until my mom (their only daughter) finally talked them into leaving the promised land (Texas, duh) and moving to be close to her in Arkansas.  Also, he paid up front, in full for every car he ever purchased.  I remember him trying to pay for one on his Discover card one time (hello, rewards!) and the dealer was thrown that someone would do that.  Only let him put half on the card.  He was just going to write a check to Discover and get those cash back rewards.  The point, he is smart with his money and we'd all be wise to pay heed to their generation.

4) Did you notice he said his home was the third best investment he ever made?  The first two were wedding rings.  For his first wife, then after her death for his second wife.

Don't get me wrong, this man is a human and not to be idolized.  But he's a rare breed in any case.


My takeaway from this:

"But godliness actually is a means of great gain, when accompanied by contentment. For we have brought nothing into the world, so we cannot take anything out of it either."
-1 Timothy 6:6-7


Tuesday, April 19, 2011

An Insightful Annual Report


What a delight to read Warren Buffett's annual letter to his shareholders!  It has to be the most interesting part of any company's annual report, and certainly one of the most entertaining letters of all companies is Berkshire Hathaway's.  Second only to that of my favorite company in the whole wide world, of course!

Go ahead, read Buffet's letter yourself.  But here are some of my favorite excerpts from this year: 


"No matter how serene today may be, tomorrow is always uncertain." p. 3

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"Home ownership makes sense for most Americans, particularly at today’s lower prices and bargain
interest rates. All things considered, the third best investment I ever made was the purchase of my home, though I would have made far more money had I instead rented and used the purchase money to buy stocks. (The two best investments were wedding rings.) For the $31,500 I paid for our house, my family and I gained 52 years of terrific memories with more to come. - p16

"But a house can be a nightmare if the buyer’s eyes are bigger than his wallet and if a lender – often
protected by a government guarantee – facilitates his fantasy. Our country’s social goal should not be to put
families into the house of their dreams, but rather to put them into a house they can afford."  -p 17

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"Unquestionably, some people have become very rich through the use of borrowed money. However,
that’s also been a way to get very poor. When leverage works, it magnifies your gains. Your spouse thinks you’re clever, and your neighbors get envious. But leverage is addictive. Once having profited from its wonders, very few people retreat to more conservative practices. And as we all learned in third grade – and some relearned in 2008 – any series of positive numbers, however impressive the numbers may be, evaporates when multiplied by a single zero. History tells us that leverage all too often produces zeroes, even when it is employed by very smart people.

"Leverage, of course, can be lethal to businesses as well. Companies with large debts often assume that
these obligations can be refinanced as they mature. That assumption is usually valid. Occasionally, though, either because of company-specific problems or a worldwide shortage of credit, maturities must actually be met by payment. For that, only cash will do the job.

"Borrowers then learn that credit is like oxygen. When either is abundant, its presence goes unnoticed.
When either is missing, that’s all that is noticed. Even a short absence of credit can bring a company to its knees.  In September 2008, in fact, its overnight disappearance in many sectors of the economy came dangerously close to bringing our entire country to its knees." - P 22

"On the facing page (see page 23) you can read a letter sent in 1939 by Ernest to his youngest son, my Uncle Fred.  Similar letters went to his other four children. I still have the letter sent to my Aunt Alice, which I found – along with $1,000 of cash – when, as executor of her estate, I opened her safe deposit box in 1970." - P 22

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Taken from his letter to management:

"We can’t be perfect but we can try to be. As I’ve said in these memos for more than 25 years: “We can afford to lose money – even a lot of money. But we can’t afford to lose reputation – even a shred of reputation.” We must continue to measure every act against not only what is legal but also what we would be happy to have written about on the front page of a national newspaper in an article written by an unfriendly but intelligent reporter." - P 104

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"P.S. Another minor request: Please turn down all proposals for me to speak, make contributions, intercede
with the Gates Foundation, etc. Sometimes these requests for you to act as intermediary will be
accompanied by “It can’t hurt to ask.” It will be easier for both of us if you just say “no.” As an added
favor, don’t suggest that they instead write or call me. Multiply 76 businesses by the periodic “I think he’ll
be interested in this one” and you can understand why it is better to say no firmly and immediately." - P 105

That last one may be my favorite.  :)

Saturday, April 16, 2011

God's Plan for Your Mate

Someone special to me shared this with me recently ( :) ) and I love it.  I wish I had seen it when I was younger.
To my single friends, and my young girl friends....


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God’s Plan for Your Mate

Everyone longs to give himself or herself completely to someone, to have a deep and committed soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and unconditionally.
BUT GOD SAYS:
“No, not until you are fulfilled, satisfied, and content with being loved by Me alone…
With giving yourself totally unreserved to Me… to having an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone, discovering that only in me is your satisfaction to be found, then will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you.
You will never be united with another until you are united with Me.
Exclusively of anyone or anything else, exclusively of any other desire or longings.
I want you to STOP PLANNING. STOP WISHING. And allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing…
One that you can not imagine.
I WANT YOU TO HAVE THE BEST.
Please allow me to bring it to you. Just expect the greatest thing…
Keep listening and learning the things I tell you.
Just wait. That’s all.
DON’T WORRY. DON’T BE ANXIOUS.
Don’t look around at the things others have gotten or that I’ve given them.
Don’t look at the things you think you want. Just keep looking off and away.
And up to me, or you’ll miss what I want to show you.
And then when you’re ready, I’ll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you would ever dream of.
You see, until you are ready,
Until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life that I have prepared for you. You can’t experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me.
And this is the perfect love.
And dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love in My time.
I want you to see a picture of your relationship with Me. And enjoy completely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection, and love that I offer you with Myself.
BELIEVE IT AND BE SATISFIED…

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Lessons from Secretariat

We rented Secretariat from the Red Box today.  I wasn't planning on watching it but Ben really wanted me to.  Wow, I'm so glad I did.  What a great movie!  I love crying happy tears and I certainly did watching this movie. 


I came across a blog post by Brian Dodd where he outlines Leadership Principles from the movie.  Listed some quotes Brian highlighted that I liked below...

1.Our Lives Are One Phone Call Away From Changing Forever. Penny Chenery, played by Diane Lane, receives a phone call in the opening scene notifying her that her mother has passed. This begins the series of events that resulted in Secretariat becoming the greatest racehorse of all time. I have had several instances this year where my life was propelled in another direction simply as a result of an unexpected phone call so this principle hits close to home.


2.“It’s not whether they think we won. It’s whether we think we won.” - Penny’s father Chris Chenery

3.“Great colts come from great sires.” Fathers, we are not horses obviously, but can you see the application?

4.Talent is Often Uniquely Packaged. Lucien Laurin, played by the incredible John Malkovich, is eccentric in wardrobe and personality to say the least. Be careful about making judgements based upon external appearances.

5.“I got what I wanted.” - Penny Chenery referring to acquiring Secretariat in a coin flip followed by her brother Hollis’s statement “You got what no one else wanted.”

6.Always Trust A Woman’s Intuition. Penny received no support from either her husband or brother. It is one of the truths of this life that God gives women a sixth sense regarding life’s issues. Husbands, trust your wives’ insights.  (hehe)

7.“Let him run his race.” Good words for us as leaders.

8.“You never know how far you can go unless you run.”

9.“I will not live the rest of my life in regret.” – Chenery

10.“One loss can happen. Two is non-performance.” – Chenery’s primary financial backer Ogden Phillips played by James Cromwell.

11.“I’ve run my race. You run yours.” – Chenery speaking to Secretariat the evening before the Belmont Stakes.

12.“Let him run Ronnie! Let him run!” - Chenery as Secretariat was going down the backstretch at the Belmont.

Go rent the movie!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Cajun Ten Commandments

We're studying the ten commandments in our small groups on Sunday nights.  Dan shared the following "Cajun" version.  Too funny...

Da Cajun Ten Commandments
   
1. God is number one... and das' All.

2. Don't pray to nuttin' or nobody... jus' God.

3. Don't cuss nobody... 'specially da Good Lord.

4. When it be Sunday... pass yo'self by God's House.

5. Yo mama an' yo daddy dun did it all... lissen to dem.
 
6. Killin' duck an' fish, das' OK... people - No!

7. God done give you a wife... sleep wit' jus' her.

8. Don't take nobody's boat... or nuttin' else.

9. Don't go wantin' somebody's stuff.

10. Stop lyin'... yo tongue gonna fall out yo mouf!

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Southern Plate: Red Beans and Rice

Red beans and rice make regular appearances at my home.  On rare occasion I start with dry beans.  To be completely honest though, we love Blue Runner Beans per a previous post and we use those a lot.  They'll make you wanna slap your mama.

So Christy Jordan at Southern Plate posted a recipe using dry beans that is very similar to what I do and I thought I'd share that with y'all.  Basically the only difference is that I make mine in the crock pot because I don't have time to stand around the stove all day.  We use red wine vinegar as a condiment with red beans in our house and it's a nice touch.

Here's a link to Christy's recipe.  Enjoy!  

And call me if you make them so I can come eat with you.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Cousins

Silly cousins...


Isn't my niece, Talyn, gorgeous?  She's beautiful inside and out!  Love that girl!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Good Riddance Sugar-Free February!


So Sugar-free February wasn’t as easy as I thought it would be.  Actually I thought the Great January Buying Cleanse was easier. 

Because sugar is in so many things, our goal was to avoid obviously sugar-filled treats, like candy, desserts, and sodas.  I didn’t think that I would have any problem with giving up sweets, but it was a challenge.  Here’s how it worked out for us:

MAGEN
Let’s start with sweets, and we’ll get to sodas in a sec.  I was good.  From February 1 – 13.  Then I consulted with Tiffaney and determined I deserved a cheat day in honor of Valentines Day.  Had some chocolate covered strawberries.  And it kinda went downhill from there.  I gave into temptation, well, probably 6-8 times after that.  That’s including that Cream Cheese Banana Bread that I made.  Should have never given myself a cheat day.

Now about sodas… I usually have a couple sodas a day when I’m at work.  On the first day of February I had a Coke Zero (no sugar, right?) and Tiffaney (my very own personal Jiminy Cricket) didn’t think that was a great idea.  She said that if I was going to drink soda then it may be better to drink the real thing rather than consuming all those chemicals in diet soda…

Sulphite Ammonia Caramel, Phosphoric Acid (Also used for rust removal), Sodium Citrates (Also used in photography and as an anticoagulant of blood stored for transfusion), Asapartame, Acesulfame Potassium, Sodium Benzoate, Phenylalanine, Caffeine

…Yeah.  Not that the real thing is good either.  So I had maybe 4-5 Coke Zeros during February.  I am going to claim one victory for February, and that is the reduction of soda drinking and the increase in drinking water.  I don’t think I’ve ever been a consistent water drinker – don’t really like the flavor. :)  So replacing all that coke with water was what I am most proud of for February.  Believe it or not, I have still not had a Coke yet.  I’m kind of afraid to, and also I don’t want my first Coke after a long break to be just any Coke.  It has to have GOOD ICE.  Am I right?

TIFFANEY
I totally agree with Magen that quitting sugar cold turkey is difficult. I tried not to even allow myself sugar-free products, but one night thoughtful Magen brought over some sugar-free candy to eat on my trip to Chicago. It was a “sweet” gesture; however, it led to my falling off the wagon for almost 5 days straight. The desserts of Chicago are hard to resist. I still remember the muffins! Sorry Magen.

I actually did fairly well, except with the occasional breakdown of Valentine’s Day Conversation Hearts (one of my favorites) and a pancake dinner (that I didn’t cook, therefore rude not to eat J.) As the month went by, I found myself craving sugar less and less.  Although come March 1, one would not be convinced seeing as how I consumed a good third of a box of well hidden Valentine’s Day chocolates.

Overall I think we accomplished our goals of breaking our dependence on sugar.

Good riddance Sugar-free February!

…Check back soon for Journaling and Kindness March.  Still trying to come up with a catchy title for that one.